Analyzing Insults:
What are 'Faggots'?
This is the start of a new series on common insults that are thrown at men: "faggot", "pussy", "bitch", "wuss", etc. What they mean, how to know if they apply to you, and what can be done about it, if anything. For the censors on blogger, please note that my language is not hate speech. I'm not spreading disdain for any group of people. I'm unpacking these terms linguistically, psychologically, socially, and philosophically, so that my audience of guys, who may have been called these terms (even calling themselves these terms) can understand themselves better and improve their lives. We're taking the power back!
Okay, so first things first, this is based on my earlier post on what masculinity means in the first place and male typology. Read that if you want the full context for that.
Secondarily, many guys have been called "faggots" or "fags" before, without really knowing what it means, and being men have called other men those terms without knowing their actual definitions. We're going to fix that today.
In review, (1) We discuss that Masculinity is the self-embodiment of maximalism and comes from having an internalized Phallus (Dick) and Testes (Balls), which drive the subject towards masculinity and manliness through internal psychic pressures, as opposed to only biophysiological demands.
And (2), We discuss that there are two main types of men: Hypermen or capital M Men, sometimes called Real/Successful/True Men, and Hypomen or lower-case m men, sometimes called failed men. Men and men form part of the Male Condition, contrasted with boys who have not finished puberty, nor are the age of majority in their respective jurisdictions.
On the subject of Hypomen, refer to the graphic above. So Hypomen are biocivically mature men; they are no longer boys and thus have finished puberty, possessing fully adult, biologically mature bodies, and the full legal, civic, and political rights that men share as a group, which in the United States, which is typically achieved at age 21. But they have psychologically and socially actualized as Men, due to having failed to internalize their Phallus and Testes.
Instead, they are ruled by a psychic Yonis (basically they are pussies), which results in feminine attributes like high neuroticism, high anxiety, low self-confidence, low boldness, low risk-taking, submissive attitudes, quietness, meekness, shyness, low body weight, low muscle definition, poor posture, high voice, etc. (It’s worth noting that some guys who have the stereotypical physical attributes of Real Men–tall, big muscles, deep voice, body hair–may not have the psychological or verbal attributes of one, exhibiting a lot of non-masculine behaviors, but with a masculine appearance or presentation.)
Failing “to grow a pair” often traces its origins to childhood, due to (1) having absent or abusive male role models, especially fathers, older brothers, or uncles, as well as (2) rejection from same-sex peers–boys who couldn’t make friends with other boys, were rejected, ignored, or even bullied by other boys growing up, which may have resulted in mainly (or solely) had friendships with girls. That last point is particularly important, since these hypomen tend to be indirectly and imperfectly socialized more as “girls” than as boys.
Most of their role models are women, like their mothers, aunts, or sisters, and most of their childhood friends are young girls. Thus, they identify with the Feminine instead of the Masculine, developing the Yonis instead.
Where does all this theory tie into faggotry?
All faggots are hypomen, but not all hypomen are faggots. Instead, some failed men develop into faggots when they develop an overly submissive attitude towards Men, to the extreme point of finding pleasure from sexual encounters with Men who are particularly masculine, dominant, ‘Alpha’. This relates to the Jungian notion of the Father complex–basically having daddy issues and seeking approval from other grown men–but is a more extreme version, what I call a Subservience Complex.
In essence, the Subservience Complex originates from an inferiority complex and penis envy. They unconsciously know they have a mental vagina where a cock and balls should be, causing feelings of inferiority they seek to rectify. Thus, they try to “acquire” their man-parts through proximity with who they perceive to be Real Men–hoping to acquire those Men’s internalized Phalluses-Testes through total submission and obedience of Real Men, even, or especially, sexually, physically, financially, and psychologically.
Consequently, this leads to behaviors, fantasies, and wishes of being humiliated (publicly and privately) by Real Men, controlled and dominated by them, financing them, doing household chores for them, etc. In essence, taking on traditionally feminine roles and duties as men for Men. In particular, faggots want to be publicly acknowledged as inferior and submissive, so they may serve Real Men in a variety of (sometimes extreme) ways even in front of ordinary people.
Faggots suffer from an infliction I dub a Tyrannical Yonis, where their Inner Yoni is a tyrannical, dictatorial, overpowering, psychological, internal force, that dictates all behavior and inner experience, as the basis of their self-image and self-concept.
Faggots often are homosexual, but they do not have to be. Their inner Pussy is so strong and tyrannical, that they may have fantasies about permanent castration–total removal of their dicks–or will settle for chastity–that is, abstaining from penetrating or masturbating, or even physically locking their dick into cages. This is known as the Castration Complex.
So, while ordinary hypomen tend to have Father complexes, inferiority complexes, an internalized Yonis, feminine attitudes, behaviors, or even appearance, but still some recognizable masculinity, the worst of them can go on to become Faggots, who have a Subservience Complex, a Castration Complex, a Tyrannical Yonis, and suffer with self-hatred, self-destructive tendencies, needs to test Humiliation, and to experience pain or annihilation, etc.
Basic Checklist to determine if you are a faggot:
(If you answer yes to most of these, you are likely a faggot.)
(1) Are you gay or at least sexually attracted to men in some fashion?
o Most faggots are gay, but not all
(2) Do you think your penis is too small? Even if your penis is normal or large in size, do you still feel like it is missing something?
o Faggotry actually has nothing to do with your objective penis size, but your subjective sense of size for your penis. Because faggots are ruled in the psychic realm by a pussy and not a penis, they often feel insecure about their dicks.
(3) Are you uninterested in your penis? Would you mind if it were gone, locked up, or otherwise not able or permitted to be used?
o Faggots want to dissociate from their physiological penises, ranging from abstinence from penetrating and masturbating, chastity through wearing a chastity cage and thus literally locking their dick up, and in extreme cases, having their cock and balls physically harmed or damaged to even surgically removed.
Do you abstain from sex if you have to play an active, penetrating role? Are you normally the “bottom”? Do you like being pegged or fucked?
o This comes from the Subservience Complex
(4) Do you avoid masturbating, even if you really want to? Do you even dislike it?
o This ties into the Castration Complex, as many faggots disdain their own dicks, and thus don't perform the ultimate masculine act of worshipping it, which is masturbating to orgasm. It can also be tied to the Subservience Complex, since many faggots only want to masturbate or orgasm, if given permission by a Superior
(5) Is the approval of men not enough? Do you also want to serve under men who you perceive as strong, dominant, powerful, or incredible?
o This is solidly the Subservience Complex, which is a more extreme version of the Father complex in psychodynamic theories
(6) Do you think you are intrinsically inferior to other men? As in, there is literally nothing you could do to ever be like other men.
o This relates to Penis Envy, an extreme version of inferiority complex, and naturally the Subservience Complex and Castration Complex
(7) Do you enjoy referring to men with honorifics like Sir, Boss, Master, Mr., etc?
o Evidence of having the Subservience Complex
(8) Do you enjoy having subservient roles professionally and personally? Being the “woman” in the relationship? Do you avoid leadership roles where you have to make decisions?
o Evidence of having the Subservience Complex
(9) Do you often think you are not really a man, but a woman in a sense?
o Ordinary hypomen truly wish they were Real Men and on some level believe they could be if they tried or received the right help and instruction. Which is true.
Faggots, on the other hand, do not want to be Real Men and believe they literally cannot and could never be Real Men. They can not.
(10) Do you enjoy (or wish you could be) humiliating yourself in front of other men or people, even in public places or at inappropriate times, or even in minor or unknown ways? Like being talked down to by your boss, or berated for making a mistake, etc.
o The Humiliation Test, or a need to be extremely and publicly humiliated in order to affirm self-objectification and a sense of inferiority and total obedience to Men.
Hypomale and Faggotry Typology
Just as males can be divided into Real Men and failed men, and failed men can be divided into (1) semi-subjects (what some male commentators call “Betas” or “Omegas”, though I dislike those terms), who are the ordinary Hypomen I mentioned earlier, and (2) objects, those who perceive themselves as objects, property, or mere things, regardless of if they are actually used as such by anyone.
Faggots are a type of object in hypomale typology, with faggots in turn being divided into annihilation-types and non-annihilation types.
Here, Destructive Faggots or (annihilation-type faggots) have an Annihilation Complex, which is strong drives for self-destruction and violation of laws or taboos, as well as intense fantasies about being “ruined” or “destroyed”. Since all faggots view themselves as objects to be used, they naturally want proof that they actually are an object, so they want to be treated as one. Maybe faggots experience this in some fashion, through becoming human furniture, urinals, trashcans, ashtrays, or ATMs, being used as a flesh-light or a pocket pussy, etc. But such experiences are not enough, because on some level they can still think of themselves as a human subject with an ordinary human life.
In order to truly become an object and not a subject, they don’t just want the total domination by Alphas that the non-annihilation/constructive types want. Instead, they want total destruction, so they will give their most intimate personal data to Alphas, like their social security numbers, passports, bank information, or social media logins. They will beg to be exposed to their employers, family, friends, classmates, coworkers, acquaintances, by sending full-face content of themselves naked, in humiliating poses or situations. They will send all of their money to Alphas, having no money left in their bank accounts or even going into debt.
Such behavior can cause unemployment, legal trouble, bankruptcy, eviction and homelessness, total disconnection from relationships, being disowned, etc. It serves to end the Ordinary Lives that many Faggots live through holding jobs, having normal relationships, living on their own, etc, such that their entire live is defined as being a faggot.
These kinds of faggots are extremists and fairly rare, but they do exist.
Constructive Faggots are non-annihilation-types. They want to be an object for Alphas, but they believe being one will grant them greater fulfilment and purpose and thus lead to self-improvement and a better life. They tend to be more psychologically healthy, while annihilation-type faggots tend to suffer from mental illnesses or neuroses, like anxiety, depression, or addiction, and don’t want to make themselves and their lives better, but measurably and irreparably worse.
What Can I Do About Being a Faggot?
If you have been paying attention, being a Faggot is a permanent condition. Once you become a Faggot through developing the constellation of traditional Faggotry traits, like the Tyrannical Yonis, the Subservience Complex, the Castration Complex, etc., it is a permanent change and thus cannot be undone.
Before you freak out, the good news is, after reading this, you likely learnt you aren’t actually a faggot, but instead a “Beta” or “Omega”, an ordinary hypoman, run-of-the-mill failed men, or what I would call a semi-subject: viewing yourself both like an active subject who takes control of life and circumstance and like a passive object who is controlled by other people and situations beyond their control, at the same time. This can be changed with the right assistance and work.
True Faggots are objects, viewing themselves as things to be claimed, owned, used and abused by others, especially Alphas, and thus lacking any true agency, personhood, or rights. It cannot be changed, but once a faggot accepts their infliction, they can find meaning, purpose, and fulfilment in life, and overall become happier. A lot of faggots are anxious, depressed, neurotic, and unconfident, not because of their lack of masculinity, but because of a lack of acceptance of the truth. If they realize that their purpose in life is to serve men, not become men, then they will be “cured”.
(A nuance to introduce is many self-reported faggots are simply on the low-extreme of the semi-subject category, not truly self-made objects. These are called “faux faggots”, being closer to kinksters entered in edgeplay BDSM practices. True faggots are not kinksters, nor interested in BDSM, but that will be elaborated here.)
In Review!
You learnt:
(1) What a faggot is
(2) What causes faggotry
(3) How you probably aren’t a faggot
(4) How faggotry cannot be cured, but they can be “healed” such as to no longer suffer psychological distress from their condition. You learn that most men who call other men “fags” aren’t using the term correctly at all, only as a mere insult that is a low-level expression of a much larger and more complicated phenomenon.
Next up, we are going to talk about the Alpha/Faggot dynamic itself, how it is not (really) BDSM or Kink and what it is instead, and how to practice it ethically and successfully.
Look out for: The posts explaining Androgenesis (the making of a man), Male Typology, The Myth of Heterosexuality, and Genre-Gender Theory, which will be hyperlinked here as they are published.
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